Hey Emmanuelle, you are very welcome! I have actually been thinking of your article a lot the last few days, because I have been realizing how a fixed mindset has been limiting my life. For example, with any type of self-criticism or feelings of failure, I can choose a growth mindset (āI learned _ā instead of āIām a failureā).
In my case, I really always had a fixed mindset as a child and adult, for the usual reason ā people always told me I was āso smartā so I would do anything to maintain that reputation. Thankfully I was actually very intelligent so I could get away with it, but my mood & confidence always suffered from the fixed mindset. I was always naturally pessimistic, because I didnāt believe things could change!
May I suggest another article along the lines of āHow to become an optimist by creating a growth mindset?ā :-)
Thereās a lot of good stuff out there about the subject, but I think you would do a better job:
Best wishes from the US!